I always thought girls were cute. I mean really, when I found myself staring more at the cheerleader girls than the football jocks, something inside me was like, “hey, something is up.”

Anyway, I am not the type of girl that is going to act like a lesbian for the guys, or try and make other girls think I’m cool. I kept my feelings bundled up inside and didn’t tell anyone. Its not like I’m prude - because I’m not - but its not easy knowing that you really have no interest in guys… and your an eighteen year old girl.

It’s amazing what a powerful drug alcohol is. Without it, I don’t think I’d be writing this letter… because I would have never made the call. But hey, eventually I wanted to do something, kiss someone, touch a girl, hell… even talk to one! So I fired up my trusty computer and started surfing.

I have to admit that most of the lesbian phone sex websites that I found didn’t really seem like lesbian sites. They were gross pictures of obviously too old and too foreign girls with phone numbers splashed across them. I wanted to find an actual service that would set me up with a real girl that was interested in talking dirty. FINALLY I found one and gave it a shot.

You can’t even imagine how petrified I was. My hand was shaking and my voice sounded like a twelve year old. I don’t care what anyone says, calling a phone sex number for the first time is SCARY. I kept thinking, “Is this girl going to be a bull dike”, “is she going to sound old? young?”. Before I even got a chance to hang up, I was connected with an operator (or dispatcher as she called herself). She asked me what type of girl I wanted and what I was interested in. All I could mutter was, “Umm, I’m just curious and want to play around.” Sounded dumb but she responded with, “Ahh, a first timer, I got the girl for you.”

Obviously the call was one of the most intense experiences of my life or I wouldn’t be writing this silly letter. The girl was great, sounded about my age (although she was probably older) and walked me through some of the sexiest and most intriguing talk I have ever heard. Without getting into details, It was powerful.

So, what have I learned? Life is meant to be lived. Explore new things, give it a shot. Phone sex is an opportunity to meet different people and explore fantasies at your leisure.

Over the years I have heard hundreds of stories from guys that call a phone sex line and get “addicted” to a certain phone sex operator. They call back the main “dispatch” line and want to be connected with the same girl, but alas, it doesn’t work out. The operator has no clue as to which girl you were connected to the last time you called. Know how to fix this?

First and foremost, be sure that when you are calling a phone sex line, you are calling a quality line. What distinguishes a quality line from a fly-by-night company? A quality phone sex company will train its operators to keep discreet, private records of which phone sex girl you were paired up with on your last call. This allows them to weed out the bad girls and filter you back to the same person you had last time, if you like.

Second, if you have just had a mind blowing phone sex experience, be sure to ask the girl for her name, and the usual times that she works. You’d be surprised how eager she will usually be to give you that information. More calls requesting her means more money in the bank. Be polite, tell her how much you have enjoyed her time, and ask her when she will be working again.

Last, if you feel uncomfortable asking the girl for her name or her next shift, then see if she would be willing to give you her email address. Often times, guys establish pretty cool relationships with phone sex operators just by dropping them an email every now and then. Warning here, don’t be a freak and email them every day. Don’t propose to them. Be cool, be mature, be sweet, and your days will be filled with phone sex fun.